Had the worse convo today. Someone told me get off my soap box about not having a support system as a single mother. However this person has no children and doesnt know what it is to not have or not be properly supported. This made me angry because this person has been in my life for some time and one of the largest issues in our friendship was my tendency to keep what I am goong thru and what I feel to myself. Now that I open up and aay I have no support this person made it about them even though it wasnt directed toward them and I made that clear. I just needed to get it off my chest. I guess maybe this isnt my friend after all
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ehh what the hell
OH MY GOD SO NO FUCKIN BULLSHIT I SWEAR To GOD. I reblogged this an hour ago and IM NOT Lying My Tax Refund which I did in late march popped into my Bank Account, and it was a Decent sized amount……
WHAT THE FUCK Is THIS MAGIC!??!?!?! Im trying this again IM NOT BSing hahahaha thats actually pretty cool xD
Before you get mad at your partner for not doing what you expect them to do, Stop and ask yourself “have I ever communicated to them that I have this expectation?” If you have not, it’s unfair to expect them to read your mind.
So many arguments are saved by just opening your mouth and saying “hey hun, in the future can you….” Whether its articulating how you like to be loved, supported, or communicated with, you have to open your mouth. Your soul mate (IMO) isn’t the person that just always knows what you need when you need it without you telling them. Your soul mate is the person who hears your needs and thinks “I have no problem doing that because I love this person with my whole heart”
So check your attitude and open your mouth. Closed mouths don’t get fed.
Cunnilingus is a performance art. It’s the process of making love to pussy with your mouth and tongue. Great way to make her feel admired and appreciated.
“78 percent of a woman’s pleasure is about yearning"
It’s a map to this that you should follow, you can always take a short cut, or dive face first in the pussy, but I heard somewhere “78 percent of a woman’s pleasure is about yearning” and that sounds true so I’m going to go with that. So build up anticipation
The Build Up
Forehead -Kiss that.
Nose - *I got your nose grab* (I’m joking, don’t do that unless she’s into goofy shit),
Lips (Face) - Bite & Kiss that (quick lil bite on the bottom one mixed with some slow kissing),
Neck - Kissing, Biting, Sucking
Boobs - Suck,Kiss snd Lick That (Should’ve done this since you first got her naked)
Belly Button - Kiss that too.
Inner Thigh - Bite, Lick, Kiss, Bite, Lick, Kiss
Pelvic Bone - Kiss
Pubic Bone - Kiss
Pussy is finger food.
My mother always told me “Cut your nails. girls wouldn’t let you touch them if your nails are long.” She was telling me this since I was a youth and I didn’t fully understand what she meant by this until I “Started touching girls.“
So Make sure yo nails short and clean, fam. because Pussy is finger food and you should be using your fingers often actually your hands in general.
The Lips
Use your tongue on her pussy lips. Split her inner and outer pussy lips and run your tongue around there then move on to the Clit.
Clitoris - (aka the most important and most neglected part of the vagina.)
Find her clit and start the show. The Clit is that small knob of pink flesh and you’ll find this at the top of the vagina. This is the headquarters of pleasure this is where you want to focus on. This is like the female version of a dick head, it causes them to Orgasm which is a big deal. Clits come in various shapes, sizes, and sensitivities. It’s like a lecture hall class of nerves. Start off soft and slow in the beginning, all clits are fond of that.Pay attention to her reactions. Slow down when she’s convulsing and don’t stop stop when she start Draking “oh my god, oh my god, I’m bout to cum this heaven” Rub the clit like you’re doing crossovers in 2k. (Gently)
You want to lick her clit like your shooting Free throws in NBA 2K. Up and Down and you can do side to side eventual you’ll want to do 360 motions. You should put the whole clit in your mouth without your teeth getting in the way, NEVER EVER USE TEETH.
“Lick her Pussy like you’re doing crossovers in 2K.”
G Spot
It’s at the roof of the Vagina. Get your Index and Middle finger in there and make like a come here motion in it. Start off slow then move faster.
What To Say?
Tell her how good she tastes.
How beautiful her pussy is.
How wet she is.
How good she smell.
Multitask
Now you do all the above in different combinations at the same time.
DON’T
DON’T BITE THE CLIT
DON’T TUG ON THE CLIT
DON’T BITE THE PUSSY
In All Actuality
You just have to get creative on the pussy and when you find something that works, keep at it.
Unanswered calls
Ignored messages
He used to love me
Before the complications
He used to want me
Before the lies
He used to need me
Before the hidden cries
Damn he used to love me
In a way that set my soul free
In a way that ignited a fire in me
Time set in and awoken complications
The simplicity of our love is no more
Fighting to hold on even when it hurts
Hold on holding on my grasp becomes slippery
I open my eyes n look to his hand
But im unsure if its really there
Is he holding on holding on
Or has the fire gone out
Or was it ever burning to begin with
He used to love me
Before I set my emotions free
Bottled inside me
My heart needed to speak
Yet my mind couldn’t get it right
& still my heart skips at the thought of him
Butterflies dance inside me when hes near
My body yarning for his embrace
The smell of his body lingers in my nose
Giving my love to right his wrongs
His wrongs never changing my love
My love is fearless & consistent
My love is for him
Is his love for me
Counting the petals of dead roses
He loves me he loves me not
The questions burn my soul
As my heart longs to know
Could this be the end
My heart says fight
My mind says give it up
Heart & mind the biggest battle
Since the beginning of time
Its the worse of time
Looking forward to the best of times
Best of times
What good is success if u can share it
What good is love if u cant give it
What good is time if u have to count it
He used to love me
But forever I will love him